♥ Jamie Paul Wicks ♥

1998 - 1999
LocationCambridge
Age4 months
Cause of DeathOrgan Failure
Date of Birth20/11/1998
Date of Death27/03/1999
Visitors18,005 since 06/12/2007
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I would like to thank all my Gone Too Soon Friends for their lovely tributes, kind
words,pictures,gifts and support, THANK YOU ALL VERY MUCH xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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20/11/98-
27/03/99.

♥ This is my story,it was
used for the Tommys Campaign christmas appeal 1999 and helped them raise £10,000 which went towards
them finding the answers to why so many babies are born too early. ·:*:· ·:*:· ·:*:· ·:*:·
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♥ It was my first pregnancy in 1998.I was working full time and everything was
fine until i went for my 28 week check at the doctors.My blood pressure had risen,my fingers and
ankles were swollen and i had protein in my urine.My doctor told me i had pre-eclampsia and sent me
straight to hospital where i was kept in.I started having scans when they found that my baby wasnt
growing,i had steroid injections straight away. I was kept in hospital but went home for the odd day
with the community midwife visiting me.It was finally decided that my baby would have to be
delivered by caesarean section after showing signs of distress. ·:*:· ·:*:· ·:*:· ♥
My little boy Jamie was born on the 20th November 1998 weighing just 2Ib 7oz at 31+5 weeks
gestation.He was perfect in every way apart from he needed oxygen because his lungs had not
matured.He only needed what they call minimal oxygen,when around christmas he seemed to develop a
cold.Gradually his oxygen went up. ♥
In February it was decided to send him for a CT scan where they found his lungs to be very
scarred.It wasnt until March when we were finally told he was going to die. There was nothing else
they could do for him.He was so advanced considering he was premature.He had started smiling and the
nurses said he was a little character.We were able to bring him home for one day with two nurses.The
next day when we got to the hospital he didnt want to be touched.He could only lie on his front.His
eyes were all swollen,he couldnt open them. We decided that night to have him baptised,with all the
family around us.The next day he needed so much oxygen through a mask as well as through his usual
nasal cannulas.It was then decided to give him morphine through a drip and gradually turn his oxygen
off when he couldnt cope anymore. ·:*:· ·:*:· ·:*:· ♥ Just before he died he opened his
eyes and looked at me as if to say "goodbye".He died on the 27th March 1999 aged 19 weeks.♥ ♥
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enough to have a little girl called Kirsty in 2001.We gave her Jamie as her middle name.I was in and
out of hospital through the pregnancy with her but she was born healthy,a little small at 5Ib 6oz
but perfect. She is a little madam but we all love her to bits. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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God bless you is my prayer today,
I'm honored to call you 'friend';
I pray the Lord will keep you safe,
Until we write again.
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Thankyou for Fiona and Barry's candles,photos and tributes. It means so much to me. thx, shirley Harmon xx

Anonymous February 18, 2008

Im everyplace...

Mum don't mourn for me I'm still here, though you don't see I'm right by your side each night and day And within your heart I long to stay

My body is gone but I'm always near I'm everything you feel, see or hear My spirit is free, but I'll never depart As long as you keep me alive in your heart

I'll never wander out of your sight I'm the brightest star on a summer night I'll never be beyond your reach I'm the warm moist sand when you're at the beach

I'm the colourful leaves when fall comes around And the pure white snow that blankets the ground I'm the beautiful flowers of which you're so fond The clear cool water in a quiet pond

I'm the first bright blossom you'll see in spring The first warm raindrop that April will bring I'm the first ray of light when the sun starts to shine And you'll see that the face in the moon is mine

When you start thinking there's no one to love you You can talk to me through the Lord above you I'll whisper my answer through the leaves on the trees And you'll feel my presence in the soft summer breeze I'm the hot salty tears that flow when you weep And the beautiful dreams that come while you sleep I'm the smile you see on a baby's face Just look for me, I'm everyplace...

thanks donna for Ur kind msg's. they mean a lot 2 me. take great care. love always xx Angela & Lisa xx

Angela Swindell (Friend) February 18, 2008

goodnight, godbless

it happens without warning
time and time again
i go along and join the flow
but still remember when
you were there to share it all
that made it all worth while
the memories keep flooding back
and once again i smile
then reality returns to me
and once again your gone
if onli this little dream i have
could simply just go on
i try and hide the heartache
but i feel it none the less
these are my words i send to you
I MISS YOU..........goodnight, godbless

Having you not with me
Hurts more and more each day
Although I feel a closeness
In a very special way
Even as I go to sleep
Every thought is of you
And I never thought i'd miss you
In quite the way I do
So i'm hoping that these words
May some how let you know
That you're in my heart forever
And i'll always love you so
The one and only thing
That helps me with the pain
Is dreaming of the time
When I will see you again...

Love ~~ Jane...x♥x

Jane Steven Moore Mummy (Friend) February 17, 2008

~~A Candle of Love~~

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Jane Steven Moore Mummy (Friend) February 16, 2008

dont tell me

Please don't tell me you know how I feel,
Unless you have lost your child too,
Please don't tell me my broken heart will heal,
Because that is just not true,
Please don't tell me my son is in a better place,
Though it is true, I want him here with me,
Don't tell me someday I'll hear his voice, see his face,
Beyond today I cannot see,
Don?t tell me it is time to move on,
Because I cannot,
Don?t tell me to face the fact he is gone,
Because denial is something I can't stop,
Don't tell me to be thankful for the time I had,
Because I wanted more,
Don't tell me when I am my old self you will be glad,
I'll never be as I was before,
What you can tell me is you will be here for me,
That you will listen when I talk of my child,
You can share with me my precious memories,
You can even cry with me for a while,
And please don't hesitate to say his name,
Because it is something I long to hear everyday,
Friend please realize that I can never be the same,

~~Happy Valentines Day~~

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Lots Of Special Love ~~ Jane...x♥x

Jane Steven Moore Mummy (Friend) February 14, 2008

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fяιєи∂ѕ αяє ℓιкє fℓσωєяѕ
єα¢н υиιqυє ιи тнєιя σωи ωαу,
ρυт тнєм αℓℓ тσgєтнєя
ωнαт α ωσи∂єяfυℓ вσυqυєт ~~

ѕσмє αяє яєαℓℓу вяιℓℓιαит
fυℓℓ σf ℓιgнт ѕнαяρ αи∂ ¢ℓєαя,
ωнιℓє σтнєяѕ αяє мσяє ѕυв∂υє∂
тσ вσтн уσυ ¢αи α∂нєяє ~~

уσυ αяє α fℓσωєя ιи му gαя∂єи
тнαт мαкєѕ υρ му вσυqυєт,
му fяιєи∂ѕ уσυ αℓℓ мαкє
α νєяу ιмρяєѕѕινє ∂ιѕρℓαу ~~

ℓσтѕ σf ℓσνє αℓωαуѕ ~~ נαиє...χ♥χ

Jane Steven Moore Mummy (Friend) February 13, 2008

I asked the lord to bless you
As i prayed for you to day
To guide you and protect you
As you go along your way
His love is always with you
His promises are true
And when we give him all our cares
we know he'll see us through
So when the road you travel on
Seems difficult at best
Just remember i am praying
And god will do the rest

Thankyou for all your support our love always XxXxXx

Denise Angels Beth And Faye Doris And Eric (Friend) February 13, 2008

Every day, it passes,

Along with each New Year.

I often find I think of you,

And always shed a tear.

People say that it gets easier,

The pain does go away.

But I just find that missing you,

Gets stronger every day.



I wonder what my life would be,

With you by my side.

First day at school, you're growing up,

Strengthening my pride.

A mother's love is endless,

Maternal love abounds.

But it's not the same as you being here,

Knowing you are around.



And yet one day I know we'll meet,

Our bond cannot be broken.

As each new day brings me near,

To words we've never spoken.

I love you so much sweetheart,

I miss you every day.

My arms long to surround you,

And show you in every way.
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