♥ Jamie Paul Wicks ♥

1998 - 1999
LocationCambridge
Age4 months
Cause of DeathOrgan Failure
Date of Birth20/11/1998
Date of Death27/03/1999
Visitors18,005 since 06/12/2007
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I would like to thank all my Gone Too Soon Friends for their lovely tributes, kind
words,pictures,gifts and support, THANK YOU ALL VERY MUCH xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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20/11/98-
27/03/99.

♥ This is my story,it was
used for the Tommys Campaign christmas appeal 1999 and helped them raise £10,000 which went towards
them finding the answers to why so many babies are born too early. ·:*:· ·:*:· ·:*:· ·:*:·
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♥ It was my first pregnancy in 1998.I was working full time and everything was
fine until i went for my 28 week check at the doctors.My blood pressure had risen,my fingers and
ankles were swollen and i had protein in my urine.My doctor told me i had pre-eclampsia and sent me
straight to hospital where i was kept in.I started having scans when they found that my baby wasnt
growing,i had steroid injections straight away. I was kept in hospital but went home for the odd day
with the community midwife visiting me.It was finally decided that my baby would have to be
delivered by caesarean section after showing signs of distress. ·:*:· ·:*:· ·:*:· ♥
My little boy Jamie was born on the 20th November 1998 weighing just 2Ib 7oz at 31+5 weeks
gestation.He was perfect in every way apart from he needed oxygen because his lungs had not
matured.He only needed what they call minimal oxygen,when around christmas he seemed to develop a
cold.Gradually his oxygen went up. ♥
In February it was decided to send him for a CT scan where they found his lungs to be very
scarred.It wasnt until March when we were finally told he was going to die. There was nothing else
they could do for him.He was so advanced considering he was premature.He had started smiling and the
nurses said he was a little character.We were able to bring him home for one day with two nurses.The
next day when we got to the hospital he didnt want to be touched.He could only lie on his front.His
eyes were all swollen,he couldnt open them. We decided that night to have him baptised,with all the
family around us.The next day he needed so much oxygen through a mask as well as through his usual
nasal cannulas.It was then decided to give him morphine through a drip and gradually turn his oxygen
off when he couldnt cope anymore. ·:*:· ·:*:· ·:*:· ♥ Just before he died he opened his
eyes and looked at me as if to say "goodbye".He died on the 27th March 1999 aged 19 weeks.♥ ♥
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enough to have a little girl called Kirsty in 2001.We gave her Jamie as her middle name.I was in and
out of hospital through the pregnancy with her but she was born healthy,a little small at 5Ib 6oz
but perfect. She is a little madam but we all love her to bits. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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TRIBUTES FOR THIS WEEK

FOR MONDAY

Those we love don't go away,
They walk beside us every day,
Unseen, unheard, but always near,
Still loved, still missed and very dear.

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FOR TUESDAY

We can't have old days back
When we were all together.
But secret tears and loving thoughts
Will be with us forever.

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FOR WEDNESDAY

Thank you for loving and sharing,
For giving and for caring.
God bless you and keep you,
Until we meet again.

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FOR THURSDAY

Your gentle face and patient smile
With sadness we recall
You had a kindly word for each
And died beloved by all.

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FOR FRIDAY

Memories Build a Special Bridge
Our memories build a special bridge
When loved ones have to part
To help us feel we're with them still
And sooth a grieving heart.

Our memories span the years we shared,
Preserving ties that bind,
They build a special bridge of love
And bring us peace of mind.

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FOR SATURDAY

God saw you getting tired
And a cure was not to be.
So he put his arms around you,
And whispered "Come to Me".

With tearful eyes we watched you,
We watched you fade away.
Although we loved you dearly,
We could not make you stay.

A golden heart stopped beating,
Hard working hands now rest.
God broke our hearts to prove to us
He only takes the best.

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FOR SUNDAY

Life is but a stopping place,
A pause in what's to be,
A resting place along the road,
To sweet eternity.

We all have different journeys,
Different paths along the way,
We are all meant to learn some things,
But never meant to stay.

Our destination is a place,
Far greater than we know,
For some the journey's quicker,
For some the journey's slow.

But when the journey finally ends,
We'll claim a great reward,
And find an everlasting peace,
Together with the Lord.

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Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum

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Marie-Angela Rowe September 27, 2009

Good Morning Beautiful angel xx

I just wanted to come on and say Im so sorry for not being there for you and your family, Ive been struggling recently and found it difficult to come on GTS

I always think of you and if I dont come on every day it doesnt mean I have forgotton you

I send all my love to you always xxxx ♥

Angel Baileysmummy (GTS Friend) September 25, 2009

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Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ... Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ... Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ...Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ

A tear is a drop of liquid sorrow
That I shed for today and tomorrow
A song, a look something you see
Brings back all the tears to me
Yet this one single drop which fall from my eyes
Releases all the emotions that are kept deep inside
One tear starts to flow and more take it's place
Before you know it tears stream down my face
So pure so emotional these tears that I grieve
They come from my heart where they are conceived
These are not tears of happiness and glee
But my tears of love that I shed for thee

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Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ... Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ... Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ...Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ


When i see a bright star shining in the sky
I will no longer wonder why!
I will picture you sailing to a distant shore
Rainbows, sunbeams, fountains clear
Will always remind me that you are near
When i say my prayers at night
Whisper in my ear goodnight
Till we meet again angel
I will always remember you

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Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ... Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ... Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ...Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ

I WISH YOU ALL A VERY ENJOYABLE WEEKEND MY FRIENDS
WITH LOVE AS ALWAYS LINDA.XXX

Linda Hutt September 25, 2009

A Mother’s Love
auther unknown

I didn’t have to look into your eyes
To fall in love with you.
I didn’t have to hear you cry
To know you loved me too.
I didn’t need to hold your hand
To cherish you always.
Within my womb we shared our hearts
You touched my soul
You sweetened my spirit
You gave me memories I’ll always
Hold very dear
Yes, my heart aches since
You departed so soon
But a mothers love does not
End with death
For you are my child
my love is forever yours.
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I send this to you today as this poem says it all
and i thank you for always looking in on my Baby Mark his Daddy and My Mum, Dad and my Brother,
love always sheila xxx

Sheila And My Angels (GTS Friend) September 24, 2009

Tributes For This Week

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FOR MON

Our thoughts are ever with you
Though you have passed away.
And those who loved you dearly
Are thinking of you today.

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FOR TUES

Everyday in some small way
Memories of you come our way.
Though absent, you are always near
Still missed, loved and always dear.

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FOR WED

Your presence we miss,
Your memory we treasure,
Loving you always,
Forgetting you never.

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FOR THUR

No farewell words were spoken,
No time to say goodbye,
You were gone before we knew it,
And only God can tell us why.

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FOR FRI

If we could have a lifetime wish
and one dream that could come true
We would pray to God with all our
hearts just to see and speak to you

A thousand words won’t bring you back
We know because we’ve tried
and neither will a million tears
We know because we’ve cried

You’ve left behind our broken hearts
and precious memories too
But we’ve never wanted memories
We only wanted you

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FOR SAT

God saw you getting tired
and a cure was not to be.
So he put his arms around you,
and whispered "Come to Me".

With tearful eyes we watched you,
we watched you fade away.
Although we loved you dearly,
we could not make you stay.

A golden heart stopped beating,
hard working hands now rest.
God broke our hearts to prove to us
He only takes the best.

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FOR SUN

Life is but a stopping place,
A pause in what's to be,
A resting place along the road,
To sweet eternity.

We all have different journeys,
Different paths along the way,
We are all meant to learn some things,
But never meant to stay.

Our destination is a place,
Far greater than we know,
For some the journey's quicker,
For some the journey's slow.

But when the journey finally ends,
We'll claim a great reward,
And find an everlasting peace,
Together with the Lord.

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Thoughts Today Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum

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Marie-Angela Rowe September 20, 2009

18TH SEPTEMBER 2009

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NIGHT,NIGHT.X.

Jude Swaddle September 18, 2009

✿✿✿✿✿✿✿✿✿✿YOU ARE RESTING IN HEAVEN,
┊   ┊┊   ┊┊ ✿YOUR SPIRIT IS STILL ALIVE,
┊   ┊┊  ✿✿SHINING BRIGHTLY IN HEAVEN'S
┊   ┊┊  BEAUTIFUL SKY.YOU HAVE FAMILY
┊   ✿✿WHICH WILL MISS YOU ALL THE TIME.
┊ SO KNOW YOU CAN REST YOUR HEAD AND FOLLOW
┊ THE STARS WHERE THE ANGELS TOOK YOU
✿ THROUGH THE PEARLY GATES OF HEAVEN.



TRIBUTE FOR FRIDAY 18-09-09

♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥
✿✿✿✿✿✿✿✿✿✿WHILE PETALS FALL
┊   ┊┊   ┊┊ ✿AND BLOSSOMS FADE.
┊   ┊┊  ✿✿OUR MEMORIES WILL LINGER ON.
┊   ┊┊  AND RECOLLECTIONS OF THOSE HAPPY
┊   ✿✿ DAYS WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.
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TRIBUTE FOR SATURDAY 19-09-09.


♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥
✿✿✿✿✿✿✿✿✿✿ LOOKING BACK ON DAYS GONE BY
┊   ┊┊   ┊┊ ✿OUR MANY HOPE'S AND DREAMS
┊   ┊┊  ✿✿TO LOSE TOU WAS SO DIFFICULT
┊   ┊┊ TO KEEP YOU WAS IMPOSSIABLE 
┊   ✿✿BUT WITH EVERY DAY THAT PASSES
┊ OUR LOVE JUST GROWS STRONGER. ✿
✿

TRIBUTE FOR SUNDAY 20-09-09.

✿✿✿✿✿✿✿✿✿✿WE HAVE A SPECIAL LOVE FOR YOU
┊   ┊┊   ┊┊ ✿THAT ONLY SEEMS TO GROW,
┊   ┊┊  ✿✿IT KEEPS ON GETTING STRONGER
┊   ┊┊  TO THOSE WHO LOVE YOU SO. 
┊   ✿✿ THAT IS WHY YOUR LOVED
┊ WITH EVERY PASSING DAY
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I WOULD LIKE TO WISH YOU ALL A LOVELY WEEKEND
TAKECARE AND GOOD BLESS,WITH LOVE AS ALWAYS LINDA.XXX

Linda Hutt September 17, 2009

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LOOKS LIKE I MIGHT NEED TO GET A NEW COMPUTER BORROWED ONE FOR TODAY SO WILL HAVE TO DO TRIBUTES FOR A WEEK AT A TIME FOR NOW I WOULD LIKE TO THANK EVERYONE FOR YOUR CONTINUED SUPPORT WITH ALL THE MESSAGES YOU LEAVE FOR CHRISTOPHER & I
THANKS AGAIN ANGELA X

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FOR MONDAY

Always a smile, instead of a frown,
Always a hand, when one is down,
Always true, thoughtful and kind,
Wonderful memories they left behind.

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FOR TUESDAY

Those we love don't go away,
They walk beside us every day,
Unseen, unheard, but always near,
Still loved, still missed, and very dear.

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FOR WEDNESDAY

Although we smile and make no fuss,
No one misses them more than us;
And when old times we oft recall,
That's when we miss them most of all.

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FOR THURSDAY

Every tear is a prism through which I see,
A rainbow of emotions and memories,
Though fate has led you to another place,
True moments hold meaning time can never erase.

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FOR FRIDAY

In tears we saw you sinking,
We watched you fade away,
Our hearts were almost broken,
You fought so hard to stay,
But when we saw you sleeping,
So peacefully free from pain,
We could not wish you back,
To suffer that again.

It's lonely here without you,
We miss you more each day,
For life is not the same to us,
Since you were called away.
To your resting place we visit,
Place flowers there with care,
But no one knows our heartache,
When we turn and leave you there

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FOR SATURDAY

We often think of bygone days,
When we were all together,
The family chain is broken now,
But memories will live forever,
To us, you have not gone away,
Nor has you travelled far,
Just entered God's eternal home,
And left the gate ajar.

If we had all the world to give,
We'd give it, yes, and more,
To hear his voice, see his smile,
And greet him at the door.
But all we can do, ,
Is go and tend your grave,
And leave behind tokens of love,
To the best loved one God made.

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FOR SUNDAY

Though your smile is gone forever,
And your hand we cannot touch,
Still we have so many memories,
Of the ones we loved so much.
Your memory is our keepsake,
With which we'll never part,
God has you in His keeping,
We have you in our hearts.

It’s so strange that those we need
And those we love the best,
Are just the ones God called away
And took them home to rest,
But every time I think of you,
I seem to hear God say,
Have faith and trust my promise
You’ll meet again some day.

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Thoughts Today Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum

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Marie-Angela Rowe September 13, 2009

Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ GOODNIGHT SWEET DREAMS Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ
♥ ☆ ♥ ☆ ♥ ☆ ♥
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┊┊   ┊┊ ♥ ☆★ Beautiful Angel ♥
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┊┊   ┊┊ ★☆ ★ It's Time To Sleep ♥
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┊┊   ┊┊ ★☆ ★ The Day Is Done And Yours To Keep ♥
┊┊   ┊┊ ┊┊ ┊
┊┊   ┊┊ ★☆ ★Now Close Your Eyes For Rest To Take ♥
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┊┊   ┊┊ ★☆ ★ And Have Sweet Dreams Until You Wake ♥
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★With Love Jo xXx♥

Jo D September 10, 2009

To All Parents

“I’ll lend you for a little time a child of mine,” He said.
“For you to love the while he lives and mourn when he is dead,

“It may be six or seven years, or twenty-two or three.
“But will you, till I call him back, take care of him for me?

“He’ll bring his charms to gladden you, but should his stay be brief,
“You’ll have his lovely memories, as solace for your grief,

“I cannot promise he will stay, since all from earth return,
“But there are lessons taught down there I want this child to learn.

“I’ve looked the wide world over in my search for teachers true,
“And from the throngs that crowd life’s lanes I have selected you.

“Now will you give him all your love, nor think the labor vain,
“Nor hate me when I come to call to take him back again?

I fancied that I heard them say: Dear Lord, Thy will be done!
“For all the joy Thy child shall bring, the risk of grief we’ll run.

We’ll shelter him with tenderness: we’ll love him while we may,
And for happiness we’ve known forever grateful stay.

“But should the angels call for him much sooner than we’d planned.
“We’ll brave the bitter grief that comes and try to understand.”
Edgar Guest

Linda Summerfield September 1, 2009
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