♥ Jamie Paul Wicks ♥

1998 - 1999
LocationCambridge
Age4 months
Cause of DeathOrgan Failure
Date of Birth20/11/1998
Date of Death27/03/1999
Visitors17,905 since 06/12/2007
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I would like to thank all my Gone Too Soon Friends for their lovely tributes, kind
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20/11/98-
27/03/99.

♥ This is my story,it was
used for the Tommys Campaign christmas appeal 1999 and helped them raise £10,000 which went towards
them finding the answers to why so many babies are born too early. ·:*:· ·:*:· ·:*:· ·:*:·
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♥ It was my first pregnancy in 1998.I was working full time and everything was
fine until i went for my 28 week check at the doctors.My blood pressure had risen,my fingers and
ankles were swollen and i had protein in my urine.My doctor told me i had pre-eclampsia and sent me
straight to hospital where i was kept in.I started having scans when they found that my baby wasnt
growing,i had steroid injections straight away. I was kept in hospital but went home for the odd day
with the community midwife visiting me.It was finally decided that my baby would have to be
delivered by caesarean section after showing signs of distress. ·:*:· ·:*:· ·:*:· ♥
My little boy Jamie was born on the 20th November 1998 weighing just 2Ib 7oz at 31+5 weeks
gestation.He was perfect in every way apart from he needed oxygen because his lungs had not
matured.He only needed what they call minimal oxygen,when around christmas he seemed to develop a
cold.Gradually his oxygen went up. ♥
In February it was decided to send him for a CT scan where they found his lungs to be very
scarred.It wasnt until March when we were finally told he was going to die. There was nothing else
they could do for him.He was so advanced considering he was premature.He had started smiling and the
nurses said he was a little character.We were able to bring him home for one day with two nurses.The
next day when we got to the hospital he didnt want to be touched.He could only lie on his front.His
eyes were all swollen,he couldnt open them. We decided that night to have him baptised,with all the
family around us.The next day he needed so much oxygen through a mask as well as through his usual
nasal cannulas.It was then decided to give him morphine through a drip and gradually turn his oxygen
off when he couldnt cope anymore. ·:*:· ·:*:· ·:*:· ♥ Just before he died he opened his
eyes and looked at me as if to say "goodbye".He died on the 27th March 1999 aged 19 weeks.♥ ♥
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enough to have a little girl called Kirsty in 2001.We gave her Jamie as her middle name.I was in and
out of hospital through the pregnancy with her but she was born healthy,a little small at 5Ib 6oz
but perfect. She is a little madam but we all love her to bits. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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I would like to thank everyone for all the candles, tributes & pictures that are left on Christopher's website they are all very much appreciated.


Tributes For Week Starting 23rd November



FOR MONDAY



The best and most beautiful
Things in the world cannot
Be seen or even touched.
They must be felt with the heart.


FOR TUESDAY


Gone yet not forgotten,
Although we are apart,
Your spirit lives within me,
Forever in my heart.


FOR WEDNESDAY


A gift for such a little while,
Your loss just seems so wrong,
You should not have left before us,
It’s with loved ones you belong.


FOR THURSDAY


Perhaps they are not
Stars in the sky,
But rather openings
Where our loved ones shine down
To let us know they are happy.



FOR FRIDAY


The Watcher

They always leaned to watch for us
Anxious if we were late,
In winter by the window,
In summer by the gate.

And though we mocked them tenderly
Who had such foolish care,
The long way home would seem more safe,
Because they waited there.

Their thoughts were all so full of us,
They never could forget,
And so I think that where they are
They must be watching yet.

Waiting ‘til we come home to them
Anxious if we are late
Watching from Heaven’s window
Leaning from Heaven’s gate.



FOR SATURDAY


As We Look Back


As we look back over time
We find ourselves wondering .....
Did we remember to thank you enough
For all you have done for us?

For all the times you were by our sides
To help and support us .....
To celebrate our successes
To understand our problems

And accept our defeats?
Or for teaching us by your example,
The value of hard work, good judgement,
Courage and integrity?

We wonder if we ever thanked you
For the sacrifices you made.
To let us have the very best?
And for the simple things

Like laughter, smiles and times we shared?
If we have forgotten to show our
Gratitude enough for all the things you did,
We're thanking you now.
And we are hoping you knew all along,
How much you meant to us.



FOR SUNDAY


To Those Whom I Love and Those Who Love Me


When I am gone, release me, let me go
I have so many things to see and do
You must not tie yourself to me with tears
Be happy that I have had so many years

I gave you my love, you can only guess
How much you gave me in happiness
I think you for the love each have shown
But now it is time I traveled on alone

So grieve a while for me, if grieve you must
Then let your grief be comforted by trust
It is only for a while that we must part
So bless the memoriss in your heart

I will not be far away, for life goes on
So if you need me, call and I will come
Though you can not see or touch me, I will be near
And if you listen with your heart, you will hear
All of my love around you soft and clear

Then, when you must come this way alone
I will greet you with a smile and a
"Welcome Home"


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Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum

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Marie-Angela Rowe 3 hours ago

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happy birthday in heaven jamie,hope you're having a great day,love to you and your family,steph xxxxx

Steph Silcock (Friend) Yesterday afternoon

HAPPY BIRTHDAY XXX
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have agreat day sweetheartxxx

Karen Stringer (Friend) Yesterday afternoon

HAPPY BIRTHDAY XXX

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Bevdaughter Of Margaret Xx (Friend) Yesterday morning

Letting go of you

I know I have to let you go.
How I will I do not know.
I know that it's your time to die.
What I don't know is how to say goodbye.
I'll miss you so much I don't know what to do.
I guess I'll just end this poem with a goodbye and an I love you.

Jenna leigh Walters

Phyllis Frazier Harris Yesterday morning

♫ ♫ HAPPY BIRTHDAY JAMIE ♫ ♫

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♪♪♪HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU♫
♫ HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU ♫
♫ HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR JAMIE ♫
♫ HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU ♪♪♪

Love always to you Jamie and your family xxxxxx

Xxx Elaine Riley Xxx (Friend) Yesterday morning

TRIBUTE FOR 19-11-09

♥*•♥ One Gift♥*•♥

One gift, above all others
God gives to us to treasure
One that knows no time, no place
And one gold cannot measure
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The precious, poignant tender gift
Of Memory...that will keep
Of dear ones ever in our hearts
Although God gives them sleep
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It brings back long remembered things
A song, a word, a smile
And the world's a better place
...because
We had them for awhile!

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TRIBUTE FOR 20-11-09
The pain we feel inside today
Is the pain we try to hide,
For no one will ever know
The tears i cry inside.

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It seems like only yesterday
The wound is still so sore.
For every hour of every day
We miss you more and more
For you are someone special
And think the world of you.

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TRIBUTE FOR 21-11-09

Missing You
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I just can't believe it
The sun still sets and rises.
The moon and stars still shine.
The flowers still bloom,
The birds still sing.
I expected a change in everything...
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I just can't believe it.
It still gets dark and light.
The ocean still has waves,
The rain still rains,
The wind still blows.
Is it because they do not know?
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I just can't believe it.
I thought the world would stop,
When in the house I found
An empty chair,
A missing smile.
I thought it would stop
For just a while.
I just can't believe it....
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TRIBUTE FOR 22-11-09

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You gave us love
And lots more,
We have so much
To thank you for,
Silent thoughts,
Memories deep,
Locked in our hearts
For ever to keep.
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I wish you all a very peaceful weekend my friend
With love as always Linda.xxx

Linda Hutt Thursday midday

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Tributes For Week Starting 16th November


FOR MONDAY

Sadly missed along life's way,
Quietly remembered every day,
No longer in our life to share,
But in our hearts you’re always there.

FOR TUESDAY

I sit and wonder every day,
Why the Lord chose to call you away,
I think He saw you needed rest,
He only takes the very best.

FOR WEDNESDAY

Everyday in some small way,
Memories of you come our way,
Though absent, you are always near,
Still missed, loved, always dear.

FOR THURSDAY

Resting where no shadows fall,
In peaceful sleep he awaits us all;
God will link the broken chain,
When one by one we meet again.


FOR FRIDAY

Surrounded by friends
Yet all alone
The one I loved
God has called home

The hugs of friends
Helps ease the pain
And I know my loss
Is my loved one's gain

But tears now flow
Across my face
As I long for just
One more embrace

Then comfort comes
And I see Christ's face
He hugs my loved one
And I feel God's grace.


FOR SATURDAY

Please don't sing sad songs for me,
Forget your grief and fears,
For I am in a perfect place
Away from pain and tears...

It's far away from hunger
And hurt and want and pride,
I have a place in Heaven
With the Master at my side.

My life on earth was very good,
As earthly life can go,
But Paradise is so much more
Than anyone can know..
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My heart is filled with happiness
And sweet rejoicing, too.
To walk with God is perfect peace,
A joy forever new.


FOR SUNDAY

When I come to the end of the day
And the sun has set for me,
I want no rites in a gloom-filled room
Why cry for a soul set free?

Miss me a little, but not too long
And not with your head bowed low.
Remember the love we once shared,
Miss me but let me go.

For this is a journey we all must take
And each must go alone.
It's all a part of the maker's plan,
A step on the road to home.

When you are lonely and sick at heart,
Go to the friends we know,
And bury your sorrows in doing good deeds -
Miss me, but let me go.

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Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum

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Marie-Angela Rowe 6 days ago

Sweet Dreams Angel x xx


♥The little stars♥
♥That shine so bright♥
♥Are Angels come♥
♥To say Goodnight:♥
♥"Goodnight,♥
♥Sleep Tight,♥
♥Sweetest Dreams we'll send♥
♥To you To-night."♥

♥So, if you peek♥
♥Outside and spy♥
♥A wee star twinkling♥
♥In the sky;♥
♥It may,♥
♥It might,♥
♥Be an Angel♥
♥Come to say Goodnight.♥


♥Written By:♥ ♥Harriet Blanche Jones.♥

Joyce Tidy (GTS Friend) 1 week ago

♥ `*•.� 13th NOVEMBER 2009 ♥ `*•.�
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Linda Hutt 1 week ago
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